Thursday, March 25, 2010

what is love??

Since the beginning of mankind,many have asked this question. I'm pretty sure that there isn't a standard answer for this. Some said love is sweet,some tasted love bitterly,and of course,most of them felt like chewing up plums. Sour and sweet at the same time.

However, someone gave me a simple answer one day. Simple,but accurate. 'Love is nothing more than a kind of feeling according to people's wants.' Alas,what an answer!!Darn right!!

Come to think of that,yes,it's very true indeed. That's why there are idioms n sayings such as 'beauty is in the eye of the beholder' or 'one man's honey is another man's poison'. In life,there are many circumstances that we would doubt people's choice on loving someone. But are there a boundary to restrain love?are we judges or juries to judge others' feeling of love in our own way??No,I don't think so.

However,almost everyone of us would make this same mistake,including me of course. We used to do that,due to many different reasons. Maybe we should try to be more understanding in a good way.

Well,whatever I said here today,I know that it's just something spatted out from an 18-year-old girl's inexperienced mind. So I'll just let time to prove me right or wrong.


let it be

no matter how serious things seem today,sooner or later,they will finally become memories.just let it be.

Thursday, March 18, 2010

困兽斗

有看过古罗马的斗兽竞技吗?在偌大的斗兽场中,人对兽,嗜血的观众就在旁冷眼旁观、加油喝彩。这种游戏的结果只有两种:一,野兽不敌死去;二,野兽被逼急了,发挥潜能反扑,人死。血腥残忍的开始,只会以血腥残忍终结。呵呵,其实啊,可能每个人身边都有这种“困兽”呢,只是看他们会选择在沉默中爆发,或在沉默中死亡而已~~

Sunday, March 14, 2010

刺猬的刺底下是一副柔软的身体,人们的刺底下是一颗脆弱的心灵。当刺猬竖起浑身的刺时,你可曾注意到那因害怕而绷紧的身躯?当人竖起浑身的刺时,你可曾意识到那正在淌血的心灵?

Saturday, March 6, 2010

勇敢

真正的勇敢不是无所畏惧,而是能/愿意克服自己的恐惧。真正的勇者不是不知死,而是知道,但还敢面对。

Thursday, March 4, 2010

人说:“守得云开见月明。”我说:“守得云开,不一定见到明月星辰,可能只会望进无边的黑夜。

美德

谦虚是美德。可是有很多人是假谦虚,要不,就是掩饰的骄傲;要不,就是认命的无奈,或是自卑。

宽宏也是美德。可是也有很多人都是假宽宏,要嘛,就是场面所需;要嘛,就是为了突现自己的宽宏大量,或是彰显对方的错误;又或者是为了自尊,假装自己不曾为对方所伤,不曾在乎过对方给予的伤害。

当然,上述只是一部分,绝不能一概而论。

好热啊。。。

我的妈呀,最近的天气怎么这么热啊!!!热,闷,湿。。。尤其是到了下午,让我真的很想忽视昂贵的电费狠狠地开大冷气,然后倒头大睡!!想起曾经在书上读过日本的梅雨季节,大概就是如此。连我们这些在赤道国家长大的人都受不了,真是难为了日本的朋友们。唉,希望这种鬼天气快点结束吧!

Tuesday, March 2, 2010

读后感

刚看欧阳林医师的《再续丝路情》。书中记录了欧医师毅然地辞职,再次踏上久别了十年的丝路。读着读着,我忽然也有种想抛开一切去旅行的冲动。不知我是否有这么做的条件呢?=)

目的

有些话,想给熟人知道,又不想给太多人见到,就起了写部落格的念头。仅此而已。